ShayAuLait – Shay Au Lait

The Burlesque Blog

Shay Au Lait’s Burlesque Blog chronicles adventures as a burlesque performer and explorations and dreamstorms as a burlesque instructor and producer. Shay’s experiences also include topics that cover BDSM, Theater, Pole Dance, Immersive Nightlife, Polyamorous Dating, Sexuality and more!

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Power Exchange in SuciaKINK: Cultivating Intentional and Mindful Practice

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Architects of Pleasure: Why Everybody Wants to Be a Showgirl (And Where to Actually Find Us)

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Everybody Wants To Be A Showgirl Until It’s Time To Pick A Location

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Stop Forcing Cis Men Into Humiliation Rituals at Burlesque and Drag Shows

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Cultivating Erotic Intelligence with SuciaKINK: Desire, Power, and the Practice of Integration

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Unmasking Sadism at Reign of Pain – Teaching at a Kink Conference

Why I Created PolyAm Dynamics?

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SuciaKINK: Cultivating Erotic Intelligence, Intentional Power Exchange, and Conscious Desire

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The Polyam “Little M/s/r/x” series – Branding & Campaign Strategist

The Mindful Swinger series – Producer & Moderator

SuciaNYC Consent series – Co-Host and Panelist

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What Is Burlesque? History, Meaning, and Modern Practice (2025)

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The Art of Burlesque: Elevating Event Production and Empowering Burlesque Producers

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Free Offering – 5 Remarkable Pathways to Embody the Erotic That We Love

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What is A Polycule? – Mapping Out Your Polyamorous and Nonmonogamous Life

Burlesque Adventures – 11 Geeky and Quirky Excursions in Denver

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Strange Fruit at a Rock Show

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Burlesque Adventures – 14 Fascinating Speakeasy Bars in New York City

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Burlesque Adventures – Where to Take Pole Dance, Yoga or Salsa in Denver

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Burlesque Adventures – 20 Provocative and Kinky Rendezvous in Denver