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Kinky Siren Switchress

Kinky Siren Switchress

“She is part human, part goddess, part mythical forest creature.”

- Domme Stephxecutioner,
Rock ‘n Roll Dominatrix

Are You The 
Sacrifice 
Initiate 
?
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“I’m fairly certain she's not entirely human. A female Alusi or Earth spirit perhaps, deeply magical, powerful, enthralling. Just wearing a ‘person costume.”​

- Master R.W.

Equal parts playfully innocent and dangerously kinky, Shay Au Lait is the Kinky Siren Switchress! As a Professional and Lifestyle Dominatrix, Shay most often manifests as a Sorcerer, a Shapeshifter, and a Primal Wolf. Switchress is very much a multi-layered, tactile sensuous creature. Delighting in playing with power and lingering in the pleasure of sensuality, sexuality, and eroticism, Switchress conducts rituals traversing between worlds to exact magic.

Other titles bestowed upon the Kinky Siren Switchress: The Erotic Goddess, The Typhoon of Temptation, Intellectual Sensual Shaman, and The BaDonkaMonk of SlutChurch

HONORIFIC: SWITCHRESS

"[Switchress Shay] is the Maya Angelou of Kink.”​

- Goddess Toney Electra

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Other identities & kinks that speak to aspects of Shay: Primal, Experimentalist, Sadomasochist, Voyeur & Exhibitionist & Brat*

Pro Specialities: Sensual and Sensory Play/Deprivation, Power Play, Mindfucks, Edging & Edgeplay, Energy Play, Role Play, Impact Play, Tease & Denial, Bondage & Restraint, Psychological Torture &Discipline

As a practitioner and producer, Shay also hosts, photographs, and facilitates fetish events, workshops, shows, and festival experiences.

Select Keynote Addresses:  Shay is also a public speaker, panelist, and moderator.

  • “BDSM As a Healing Tool”
  • “Vanilla is a Flavor”
  • “Embodying the Role of the Femme Fatale”
  • “What’s Your Villain Origin Story?”
  • “Release Through Restraints”
  • “Vanilla to BDSM: Where Do Newbies Go to Learn”
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"I felt like we got dommed into inclusivity"

- Zahava Griss, Kink Educator, Facilitator & Leader

At A Glance

  • 15 Years in the Lifestyle as a Participant
  • 10 Years as a Professional & Practitioner
  • Queer, Polyamorous, Pansexual, and Greysexual.

Dive Into The Switchress Psyche
As a Sorcerer & Priestess, Shay is a visceral and electric force to be reckoned with as Shay spirals erotic energy within ceremonies. Shay creates immersive experiences and altars for consecration and sacrifice. From smudging to reiki and erotic touch, Switchress focuses on cosmic, transformative ceremonies. That level of reverence is balanced by the Witchy Mad Scientist within Shay that seeks to conduct subversive experiments through provocative enchantments, activities, and assignments.

In Switchress’s own personal life, there is a hunger for power exchange, energy exchange, and sensations of pleasure.A hunger for explorations in curiosity, seduction, intentional touch, full-body experiences, edging, and transformational, galactic experiences that shift states of mind and bring one to presence. Let it be mysterious, mystical, and magical. Switchress desires for every encounter to be spirited, conscious, intentional, and sacred, even if it be primal, sadistic, and vicious. It’s a decadent and dangerous life that Shay dances.

Immerse into 
Holistic 
Ritualistic 
Erotic 
Domination?

Spiral into flow. Linger in your pleasure. Activate your power. Provoke your shadow.

Shay has a keen interest into the psyche, the subconscious, and altered states. Examining both flow state and headspace in a mindful way, erotic activation begins to happen. Are you ready for ntense sensual awareness and powerful play? Devote yourself.

For Shay, BDSM is a portal to altered states of consciousness. Journey the pathway of the hidden aspects of yourself. Experience embodiment, expression and flow. Revel in your wild. Come undone for the Erotic Goddess.

Shay’s Experiences, Sessions, Ceremonies, Immersions, & Scenes may include:

  • Movement
  • Curated Music
  • Breathwork
  • Sacred Smoke Cleansing
  • Spiritual/Intention Baths
  • Plant medicine (Food of the Gods)
  • Divination cards
  • Archetypal exploration

Most often the public experiences this through Shay’s accessible work. If you have the audacity and courage or humility, come before the altar too.

  • Consider what your offerings and tributes are
  • Lay your burdens down. Confess and release.
  • Explore the tension in the tease and denial
  • Let this all lead to sensual play

Now that you’ve been granted entry into my world, step through the portal with an Erotic Spiral Journey.

  • Illumination – Shadow work
  • The Purging – Release work
  • La Petite Mort – Story work
  • Consecration – Purification work

Explore Discipline & Training, especially as it relates to your daily living and immersive experiences. 

Do you know how to worship?

*A Word on My Brat

  • When bratting, I can be both playful and petulant, adorable and annoying, moody and malleable with a sarcastic, dry, and matter-of-fact tone.
  • As a Bratty Domme, I can be subversive, demanding, and a button pusher (edging).
  • “You are one thousand percent a brat. You are a very particular brand of brat. But still, fucking brat. You’re like, devious Gone Girl level brat. Like yes, I’mma play and yes I can be tamed. Yes, we can do the innocent/mischievous thing but there is a nuclear red button you are itching to press. If they pull some obvious move, you are just gonna laugh and remind them it is chess, not checkers. That kind of brat. You’re a bratty domme too. You keep the energy even when you switch.” – Lifestyle Friend & Play Partner