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Kinky Siren Switchress

Kinky Siren Switchress

“She is part human, part goddess, part mythical forest creature.”

- Domme Stephxecutioner,
Rock ‘n Roll Dominatrix

Are You The 
Sacrifice 
Initiate 
?
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“I’m fairly certain she's not entirely human. A female Alusi or Earth spirit perhaps, deeply magical, powerful, enthralling. Just wearing a ‘person costume.”​

- Master R.W.

Equal parts playfully innocent and dangerously kinky, Shay Au Lait is the Kinky Siren Switchress! As a Professional and Lifestyle Dominatrix, Shay most often manifests as a Sorcerer, a Shapeshifter, and a Primal Wolf. Switchress is very much a multi-layered, tactile sensuous creature. Delighting in playing with power and lingering in the pleasure of sensuality, sexuality, and eroticism, Switchress conducts rituals traversing between worlds to exact magic.

Other titles bestowed upon the Kinky Siren Switchress: The Erotic Goddess, The Typhoon of Temptation, Intellectual Sensual Shaman, The Typhoon of Terror and The BaDonkaMonk of SlutChurch

HONORIFIC: SWITCHRESS

"[Switchress Shay] is the Maya Angelou of Kink.”​

- Goddess Toney Electra

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Other identities & kinks that speak to aspects of Shay: Primal, Experimentalist, Sadomasochist, Voyeur & Exhibitionist

Pro Specialities: Sensual and Sensory Play/Deprivation, Power Play, Mindfucks, Edging & Edgeplay, Energy Play, Role Play, Impact Play, Tease & Denial, Bondage & Restraint, Psychological Torture &Discipline

As a practitioner and producer, Switchress also hosts, photographs, and facilitates fetish events, workshops, shows, and festival experiences.

Select Keynote Addresses:  Shay is also a public speaker, panelist, and moderator.

  • “Would You Please Speak Your Spells? | The Rhetoric of BDSM and Kink”

  • “BDSM As a Healing Tool”

  • “Vanilla is a Flavor”
  • “Embodying the Role of the Femme Fatale”
  • “What’s Your Villain Origin Story?”
  • “Release Through Restraints”
  • “What is A Switchress: Embodying Fluid Freedom”
  • “Vanilla to BDSM: Where Do Newbies Go to Learn”
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"I felt like we got dommed into inclusivity"

- Zahava Griss, Kink Educator, Facilitator & Leader

At A Glance

  • 15 Years in the Lifestyle as a Participant
  • 10 Years as a VETTED Professional & Practitioner
  • Queer, Polyamorous, Pansexual, and Greysexual.

Dive Into The Switchress Psyche
As a Sorcerer & Dakini Priestess, Switchress is a visceral and electric force to be reckoned with spiraling erotic energy into ceremonies. Immersive experiences and altars are created for consecration and sacrifice. From smudging to reiki and erotic touch, Switchress focuses on cosmic, transformative ceremonies with a keen understanding of haptic communication. The power and presence of reverence is balanced by the Witchy Mad Scientist within Switchress that seeks to conduct subversive experiments through provocative enchantments, activities, and assignments.

In Switchress’s own personal life, there is a hunger for power exchange, energy exchange, and sensations of pleasure. A hunger for explorations in curiosity, seduction, intentional touch, full-body experiences, edging, and transformational, galactic experiences that shift states of mind and bring one to PRESENCE. Let it be mysterious, mystical, and magical, there is an ultimate desire for every encounter to be spirited, conscious, intentional, and sacred, even if it be primal, sadistic, and vicious. It’s a decadent and dangerous life that Switchress dances.

Immerse into 
Holistic 
Ritualistic 
Erotic 
Domination?

Spiral into flow. Linger in your pleasure. Activate your power. Provoke your shadow.

Switchress has a keen interest into the psyche, the subconscious, and altered states of mind and body. Exploring both flow state and headspace in a mindful way, erotic activation begins to happen on the DIVINE ENERGY SPECTRUM. Are you ready for intense sensual awareness and powerful play? Devote yourself. For Switchress, BDSM is a portal to altered states of consciousness. Journey the pathway of the hidden aspects of yourself. Experience embodiment, expression and flow. Revel in your wild. Come undone for the Erotic Goddess.

Desire more? Crave More?

At A Glance

An Experience, Session, Ceremony, Immersion or Scene may include:

  • Movement – (embodied, free flow, prompted)
  • Curated Music
  • Breathwork 
  • Sacred Smoke Cleansing
  • Spiritual/Intention Baths
  • Plant medicine (Food of the Gods)
  • Divination cards
  • Archetypal exploration

If you have the audacity, courage or humility, come before the altar during one of Switchress’ public appearances.

  • Offer or Tribute (In Person or Virtually)
  • Lay your burdens down. (Confess and release.)
  • Explore the tension. (Experience tease and denial)
  • Flow into sensual play (Move your body)

As you ascend from the uninitiated into the Initiated, step through the portal with an Erotic Spiral Journey.

  • Illumination – Shadow work
  • The Purging – Release work
  • La Petite Mort – Story work
  • Consecration – Purification work

Explore Discipline & Training (Daily living & immersive experiences) 

Do you know how to worship?