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Shay Au Lait’s Burlesque Blog chronicles adventures, research and musing as a burlesque performer, instructor, and producer.

 

Select writings also bring focus to Theatre, Pole Dancing, BDSM/Kink, Relationship Dynamics and a few other treats.
 
"Everybody Wants to Be a Showgirl Burlesque Exhibition" - https://shayaulait.com

Everybody Wants To Be A Showgirl Until It’s Time To Pick A Location

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Stop Forcing Cis Men Into Humiliation Rituals at Burlesque and Drag Shows

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Cultivating Erotic Intelligence with SuciaKINK: Desire, Power, and the Practice of Integration

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Unmasking Sadism at Reign of Pain – Teaching at a Kink Conference

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Why I Created PolyAm Dynamics?

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SuciaKINK: Cultivating Erotic Intelligence, Intentional Power Exchange, and Conscious Desire

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What Is Burlesque? History, Meaning, and Modern Practice (2025)

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The Art of Burlesque: Elevating Event Production and Empowering Burlesque Producers

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Free Offering – 5 Remarkable Pathways to Embody the Erotic That We Love

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"what is a polycule" - https://shayaulait.com

What is A Polycule? – Mapping Out Your Polyamorous and Nonmonogamous Life

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Burlesque Adventures – 11 Geeky and Quirky Excursions in Denver

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Strange Fruit at a Rock Show

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Burlesque Adventures – 14 Fascinating Speakeasy Bars in New York City

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Burlesque Adventures – Where to Take Pole Dance, Yoga or Salsa in Denver

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Burlesque Adventures – 20 Provocative and Kinky Rendezvous in Denver

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Burlesque Adventures – 13 Dazzling Burlesque Experiences in Denver, Colorado

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Burlesque Adventures – 14 Fascinating Speakeasy Bars in Denver, Colorado

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How Do You Make SENSE of RACE?

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What Its Like To Be Black At The Touch&Play Festival

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"Checklists for Intimacy and Pleasure" - www.shayaulait.com

The Best Sensual, Erotic and Sexual Checklists for Intimacy and Pleasure

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Where to Buy the Best Yoni Eggs and Other Erotic Toys Online?

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“No Hard Feelings” is an Emotional Rhetorical Fallacy

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How to Celebrate My 35th Birthday

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How to Choose A Unique and Authentic Burlesque Stage Name

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I Auditioned for Perle Noire and Lived to Tell About It

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My Boyfriend Took a Pole Dance Class

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My Favorite TV Shows of 2018

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The Luxurious Gift Guide for Burlesque Dancers

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What Does It Mean to Be Queer-Friendly?

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